Sohbet given by Sheykh Abdul Kerim el-Hakkani el-Kibrisi
Friday, 18th Rabi’ al-Thani, 1426 / May 28, 2005.
39th Street Dergah, Manhattan, New York.
Selamun aleykum. Meded Ya Sayiddi, Ya Sultan Evliya,
Mevlana Sheykh Nazim al-Hakkani. Meded.
It is a blessing for a man to have an owner. It is a blessing for a
man to have somebody to go and to consult. It is a blessing for a
man to be able to submit his ego, his will to some other hand.
That’s a blessing. If he is not (submitting his will) then that’s
arrogance which shows that the individual has not learned anything
from this life yet. The individual has not found himself yet. He has
a lot of circling around to do to go and to find. The blessing
becomes extra blessing, double blessing when you are submitting your
will, yourself. Then you are consulting and you are taking what he
is saying, what has been told to you. It is a blessing to you.
But for mankind since the beginning from Adam (alayhi salam) until
today it has been continuing and it’s going to continue until the
time of Mahdi (as) and Isa (as) in these two struggling ways. The
ego is not letting man go so easily and it is pulling him in
different direction to become disobedient to his Lord. And the
spirit and intelligence is ordering saying, “You are not the
authority to yourself. You have a Creator. Submit yourself to that
one.” Everyone’s coming according to their own ideas and their own
understanding is not submission. That is ego. Your own idea and your
own understanding is your ego. Your ego is never going to want to
submit to the power that is given to somebody else. No one’s ego is
doing that.
From the first man Adam (as), from the beginning, that was the
problem. Whatever you call yourselves here, whatever race you come
from, whatever your nationality is, it goes back down all the way to
Adam (as) and to Hawa. So they are our father and mother. Adam (as)
lived in this world for over a thousand years. He was the father of
all the children at that time and at the same time he was a prophet
to them. He was a Guide. Allah sent him to be the father and at the
same time to be guiding his children saying, “Say to them! If they
want safety then they must submit their will to you.” If they want
safety, they must say, “As you like father.” Not “as you like my
Lord.” No. They must say, “As you like. As the way you say to us. We
don’t know any better. We know that you know and we are following
you.” The ones who did that, who submitted their will to their
father found safety and their generations are finding safety. The
ones who didn’t, they haven’t found safety, they turned around and
they started doing the most cruel things on earth and their
generations are continuing.
So when you look at man, he can be pulled from two different sides.
One is to be disobedient and one obedient. If you are finding
disobedience then know that you are running someway somehow to the
first disobedient one. Qabil. He first became disobedient to his
father when his father was sitting with their mother and saying to
them, “O my children, I and your mother are not like you. You all
have mother and father. I am your father and this is your mother.
You all know that. But I and your mother, we are not like you.
Allah Almighty has created us, he molded and he gave shape to us
with His Divine Hands and we are not like you. We don’t have fathers
and mothers. Your mother and I, we are not like you. You have
mother and father. But we are not. We don’t have that.” So when
Qabil started having different ideas, he became disobedient to his
father. His ego didn’t like the reality and what he has seen. So he
says, “It’s better to become disobedient to him. So in this way I
will have what I want.” What he wanted was not good for him.
When Hawa (as) was giving birth she was always giving twins. One boy
and one girl. Always twins coming. Those who come from the same
womb, it is forbidden for them to get married. It is like today’s
understanding that they are brothers and sisters. But for the ones
coming before or after, order was coming to Adam (as) saying, “Marry
that boy to that girl. Marry that girl with that boy.” So he was
marrying them. And there was a divine secret that when the twins
were coming, one was boy and one was girl. If the boy was good
looking one, the girl was… in Islam there is no ugliness, so the
girl’s shape was not cut the way as the most perfect one, a little
crooked. But the boy is most perfect. And if the girl is most perfect
then the boy is a little bit crooked, coming from that same womb. So
Allah was giving order to Adam (as) saying, “Take that perfect boy
and marry him with that perfect girl. Take that boy who is a little
less perfect and marry him with the other one.” So they fit to each
other.
The same thing is happening in today’s world. People are not looking
whether it is fitting. They are not looking. (They are) saying, “I
like it. I want it.” Hmm. Go ahead. So later they have problems.
Look if it is fitting. If it is not fitting then you are going to
have problems later. So since that time the problems continued. So
Qabil… let’s say it another way so that you can understand. When the
plain looking one was looking at his sister who was the most
beautiful one and looking at Habil who was also the most beautiful
one, he was knowing that he is going to take that one. He knows
that. He is seeing some wisdom there and he is saying, “If I
continue being obedient to my father then I have to accept what he
says. So let me start being disobedient to him. This way I will have
some others following me. Then one day I will pull my plug from
him.”
And that’s what he did. When his father was saying, “My children, we
are not like you. We came from paradise. Allah created us
differently.” He (Qabil) said, “What are you talking about father?
You must be getting old.” As some people say today to their Sheykhs
that, “Sheykh is getting old and he is not knowing what he is
saying.” (Sheykh smiles). Astaghfirullah. He (Qabil) was
saying, “Father, what are you talking about? You are getting old.
You don’t know what you are saying. You must have a father and a
mother. You and my mother forgot where you came from. There is no
such thing.” His ego was forcing him to become disobedient because
his ego wants something, opening some other doors to become
disobedient. That’s also how man is in general. Check yourself. You
will find it out. When you are becoming disobedient to certain
things you (try to) understand, “Why am I being disobedient? What is
my benefit in this?” You will look and you will find it.
Then when the time came the father was looking at him and he
said, “My boy, I know where you are coming from. I know what is your
idea. But let me tell you, it is forbidden and Allah (subhana wa
ta’ala) made it against His laws for you to marry your own sister
coming out of the same womb. So don’t even think that.” He
said, “Why do I have to listen to you? I do as I like.” Complete
disobedience. So one day he takes his sister and disappears. The
first disobedient one. His father was saying to Habil, “Don’t let
him come around where we are. Now he is disobedient to his Lord
completely.”
Then (one day) he (Qabil) was looking at Habil saying, “You are the
reason for me to be disobedient and I am going to kill you.” So
Habil was saying to him, “I have fear from the Lord of Heavens. Even
if you try to kill me I am not going to do anything.” So when he
knew that, Sheytan was sitting on his shoulders saying, “Do it.” So
he took a big stone, hit it on top of the head of Habil and he
killed him. So the first killing happened and from that time
continuously until Judgment Day whoever kills somebody else, that
same burden goes to Qabil. It is written into his book.
He was the first disobedient one, the first one who started doing
wrong things. And after that it continued. Allah gave him life. He
took the other one (Habil) and he gave him life. When you go to the
mountain where that happened in Damascus, they call it Arbain where
the forty Awliya meet, Jibreel (as), Khizr (as) and all are
appearing there sometimes, there you will find that exactly where
the incident happened the mountain opened its mouth and it was going
to swallow him. Then Allah sent Jibreel (as) to hold (the mouth of
the mountain) open like that and he was holding it open and it did
not swallow him. There was a divine secret that He was going to
continue him and his generation is going to continue living until
the time of Isa (alayhi salam) and after that another disobedience
is going to continue. But during that small period of time of Mahdi
(alayhi salam) and Isa (alayhi salam) there will be no disobedience.
Everything will be perfect then inshallah ar-Rahman.
We are approaching those days. It doesn’t matter what anybody is
saying and what anybody is believing. As you like. But we are
watching what Holy Prophet (saw) has said and step by step we are
entering into those days. We have entered into those days. There are
not so many things left now between those ones who are having the
power and their appearance. There are not so many incidents left. We
are sitting and waiting inshallah ar-Rahman.
So safety is coming to man with obedience. Disobedience brings man
problems, troubles and sometimes endless troubles. We have to see
and we have to know where, how and who we are disobeying. Allah is
saying to us in the Holy Book of Qur’an, “Obey Allah, obey His
Prophet and obey your rightly guided leaders.” Allah is
saying, “Obey Allah.” If we learn how to obey Allah then why do we
need to obey the Prophet (saw) or others? You are not seeing that?
(Sheykh smiles). He is saying, “Obey Allah, obey His Prophet (saw).”
Obedience to Allah is obeying His Prophet (saw).
Then He is saying, “Obey your rightly guided leaders.” Obedience to
Prophet (alayhi salatu wa salam) is obeying your rightly guided
leaders. In thousands of hadiths Prophet (saw) is showing and saying
to us who those are. Watch. You don’t need to be a scholar also for
that. It comes to your heart. You must run after the ones who are
following the footsteps of the Prophet (alayhi salatu wa salam). You
want safety? You must run after them. If you don’t want safety
saying, “I am obeying Allah”, eh! You are just being Wahhabi, alone,
going up and down, and there is a big question mark on your end,
what will happen. Allahu `Alem. I know what will happen but I don’t
know what you know will happen.
In order to be obedient to Allah you must be obedient to Prophet
(saw). If you say, “I am not accepting prophets. I am accepting
Allah,” Allah is not accepting you. No man never and ever, since the
beginning from Adam (as) until now and until Judgment Day, no man is
going to be able to say, “I am not accepting any prophets but I am
accepting Allah.” Who are you? You are higher than the prophets?
Mashallah. That shows your ego. Your ego doesn’t even want to submit
to a prophet. And Allah is saying to you, “We have created those
ones special and We have put them under your service to bring you
from this hell back to paradise.” Why are you not obeying them?
Because your ego is fooling you to go to the fire. That’s why you
are not obeying. Obedience is bringing you safety.
The prophets came and passed. If you were living in the time of
Prophet (saw) you could have said, “I am not obeying anybody. I am
directly obeying the Prophet (saw).” Hmm. The Prophet (saw) has
passed physically from this world. He is not here physically. If you
want to have a connection to the Prophet (saw) spiritually then you
must have a living Guide to bring you to his presence. You cannot go
to his presence with your feet smelling. Leave the other parts. If
your feet is smelling then you cannot go to the divine presence of
the Holy Prophet (alayhi salatu wa salam).
So you have a protocol in this world and Allah has a protocol on us
in this world and hereafter also. If we break that protocol then we
are in big trouble. If you break the protocol in civil governments
you may not have so much problems. You may just lose your position.
But if you break the protocol in the army, you don’t only lose your
position but you will be punished. In the army you will be punished.
People will punish you saying, “You broke the law. You broke the
protocol. It doesn’t matter however many stars you have. You broke
the protocol that is higher than you. So you will be punished.”
So Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) is saying to us, “Don’t break my
protocol if you want to live a comfortable life in Dunya and to pass
easily from this Dunya to the grave.” You don’t know how long it is
going to be. You don’t know how long that grave is going to take.
Are you going to say to me that you know better than that man
sitting as a companion of Prophet Sulayman (as)? His companion was
sitting with him and listening to Sulayman (alayhi salam). When
another man appeared next to Sulayman (as), he looked at him and a
fear came to his heart and he started shaking. That one disappeared
again and he (the companion) said, “Ya Sulayman, there was a man
sitting next to you. Just by him looking at me, fear came to my
heart and I am shivering. Please use your powers and send me to
China. I don’t want to be around here.” (Sheykh smiles). So Sulayman
(as) said, “As you like.” He said to the wind, “Take him to China.”
Instantly he appeared in China.
Then that man appeared again. Sulayman (as) looked at him
saying, “What did you do earlier? You came and you looked at my
companion and he got so scared that he wanted to be in China. I sent
him there.” He is the Angel of Death coming to Sulayman (as). That
is his friend. He says, “Ya Sulayman, I was looking at my book and
saw that I was supposed to take his life in China. But he was
sitting in your presence. That’s why I looked at him like that and
that made it to come to his heart to say, `Put me far distant.’ And
I went there, I just took his life and I came back.”
Don’t forget. That man was sitting next to a prophet who was showing
so much miracles left and right and because of the fear that came to
him he wanted to be far away from there. He was following a prophet.
He wanted to be far distant because he didn’t know where he was
going to die, when he was going to die and how he was going to die.
If you know that you must die someday, then you are okay. Sit and wait. You
don’t have to go anywhere because you know the Angel of Death is going to come
to you in your time and place. So you already know that and you are preparing
yourself. You have no fear then. That means you have some knowledge from a
Guide.
Eh, some Wahhabi square-heads are saying, “Guide is only Allah. Only
He knows.” For what He knows? For Himself? For Himself He knows? He
gives it to His Prophet. What kind of Prophet is that, what kind of
prophets are they going to be if they don’t know any hidden
knowledge more than any ordinary man? What kind of a prophet is
that? What kind of a guide is that going to be that he doesn’t know
the road that he is taking you? You want to go from here to the
airport and a man comes saying, “I will take you to the airport.”
You first say to him, “Do you know how to go?” He says, “Of course,
I went there thousands of times.” You trust him. If he comes and
says to you, “No, I didn’t go. We are going to go together now.”
(You say), “Why do I have to follow you? You will be lost and I will
be lost too. I need somebody who is going to bring me there.” If the
guide doesn’t know certain things, what kind of a guide is he going
to be? But the square-heads never think.
Allah is ordering to us to think. That’s why Holy Prophet (saw) is
saying to us, “Sitting and thinking, meditating…” Not today’s
understanding of meditating. They are sleeping and you say, “What
are you doing?” (They say) “I am meditating.” Meditation is
thinking. Taking a subject, an object, understanding and thinking
about that matter trying to find ways. (Holy Prophet sws is
saying), “Sitting one hour alone with your Lord and meditating on
that is better than seventy years of voluntary worship.” So as much
intelligence you have, that much religion you have. That is what
Holy Prophet (alayhi salatu wa salam) is saying. As much
intelligence you have, that much is your religion.
But you reach to a station where you put the intelligence aside too
because through intelligence you cannot reach beyond that. It’s not
possible. You have to use a different transportation. Intelligence
is saying to us that Holy Prophet (alayhi salatu wa salam) moved
from Makkah to Quds with a different transportation. And
intelligence is saying to us that the same transportation that was
bringing him from Makkah to Quds was not taking him from Quds to
higher stations. Intelligence is ordering saying to us, “When he
reached to Sidrat-ul Muntaha he had to leave all other
transportations and then he had to use some other transportation.”
In Isra-i Miraj (Surat-ul Isra) Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) is telling
us how His Holy Prophet (saw) went. If you have a square mind then
you are reading that Book and you are going to say, “That’s only
theory.” Is Allah Darwin? Saying theories? How foolish are you?
But so many fools these days. Elhamdulillah. We are asking safety
from that kind of teachings, we are asking safety from that kind of
arguments and we are asking safety from our Lord to take us away
from that kind of association, to make us submit our will to our
Holy Prophet (saw) through the ones that Allah sent to us to take us
to those prophets. And the more you will become intelligent to
say, “I am not clean enough to reach to the divine presence of the
Holy Prophet (saw). Let me reach to the presence of my Sheykh,” then
that’s what you will concentrate on. That’s what we will concentrate
on. And once you reach to the divine presence of Sheykh then that
(divine presence of Prophet sws) comes step-by-step inshallah ar-
Rahman.
And everything comes back to submission. When we submit our will to
someone that we trust, to that Guide, then we may reach to our aim.
We may reach where we are aimed to go. If not, we may get lost on
the way. If you get lost in this building and you don’t know the
address and you don’t know which room you are going to go, you can
come down to the street saying, “I know this building number but I
don’t know the room,” but it may take you a long time knocking on
every door, every window on every floor, and you may find somebody
grabbing you and throwing you down from the seventh floor
saying, “Why are you bothering me?” You see? You may have so much
trouble. But if you know the address then easily you can come and
you can reach inshallah ar-Rahman.
This is for those who are accepting. If you are not accepting then
all these words are for me.
Wa min Allahu taufiq.
Bihurmatil Habib.
Bihurmatil Fatiha.
Inshallah we are here to be with our Lord and to remember Him. And
remembering Allah is remembering His Holy Names and praising His
Holy Prophet (saw). Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) is ordering us
saying, “When a group of people are coming together somewhere,
remember your Lord and praise His Prophet (saw).” People are
saying, “Bidat! Zikr is bidat!” and Allah is saying to us, “When you
are coming together, remember your Lord and praise His Prophet
(saw).” This is what Zikr is. Remembering Allah and praising His
Prophet (saw).
Elhamdulillahi Rabbil `Alameen. And Holy Prophet (saw) is saying to
us, “My nation, your faith grows old like the clothes that you are
wearing. It’s getting worn our, it’s disappearing and it’s ripping
off. So (when that happens) you get new ones and you renew your
clothes. Your faith is like that. It’s getting old and slowly you
may lose it. Always renew your faith.” Renewing faith is
saying, `Ash-hadu an-La ilaha il Allah wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan
abduhu wa rasuluhu.’
[And the Zikr began with the Shahadat]
El-Fatiha.




