BismillahirRahmanirRahim
Sohbet given by Sheykh Abdul Kerim el-Hakkani el-Kibrisi
Thursday 19 Rajab, 1426
August 25, 2005
Osmanli Naks-i’bendi Hakkani Dergah, Siddiki Center, New York.
Medet Ya Sayyidi Ya Sultanul Awliya, Medet.
Our way continues through association. People who attend the
association may make a difference in their lives. They listen, they
take it and they apply it to their lives. Otherwise, there will be
no benefit from the association. Only time it benefits is when we
take something, we put it to our lives and we live according to
that. Then we will be able to see the benefit.
Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) has sent the prophets to us to guide us
from this world back to where we came from. He has created us and He
put us into these physical forms, sending us to this world, and He
put Divine Laws on us showing us how to live in this world and how
to get the benefit of the world that we are living in without
damaging our own selves and to go clean from this world to reach
back to our own original place. Anyone who followed that up till now
has won and anyone who is going to follow that up till Judgment Day
is going to win. Anyone who did not follow the prophets have lost.
Anyone who is not going to follow the prophets are going to lose.
There are two sources that man is looking and trying to please.
Either you are trying to please your Lord or your self, your ego. If
you are trying to please the Lord of the Heavens, our Creator, then
we have to live according to His laws, not according to our own
laws. If we say that we don’t care then we live according to our
ego. But our ego is not going to take us anywhere. It’s very weak
and it is there to destroy us only.
Sheytan is always supporting the ego. The intelligence is supporting
the spirit. So through intelligence man can find his way. When man
finds the way then he needs to work with his spirituality to reach
to higher stations. All prophets came to teach one thing. From the
first man Adam (alayhi salam) to the last prophet, the Seal of the
Prophets Muhammad (alayhi salatu wa salam), between these two
124,000 prophets came. All came to teach people only one thing, to
tell them, “Turn away from the ego and from this world back to your
Lord.” Every prophet came to teach people to say, “We believe in
only the Creator Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) who has created the past,
the present and the future.”
These words that we are saying are according to our own language. In
the Divine Presence there is no past, there is no present and there
is no future. It’s always the same. It never has a beginning and it
will never have an end. Since we have been created and we have been
sent to this world, we have to use these words, past and present,
this and that, but in the Divine Presence it’s completely different.
So the more we get closer to that Divine Presence the more we
understand our own selves, our own identity. And the more we
understand our own selves then we start understanding our own Lord.
That’s why Holy Prophet (saw) is saying, “One who knows himself
knows his Lord.” So first you must look to find your own self, who
you are, what you are and what you are about. When you know yourself
then you turn around saying, “Oh, I am nothing. I am no one. Without
Him, I have never been and I am never going to be.” So then you will
know your Lord. You will know then that there is no partner. You
will know that the Lord of the Heavens does not have children. He
doesn’t give birth or He doesn’t have a father or mother. He is the
Creator and He is not like us. We are creatures.
He is the Creator. Only the spirit that He has given to us has made
us the most perfect creatures. It is because of the spirit. Without
the spirit this body is nothing. It’s only garbage, dust and
dirtiness. Whatever you say, it changes. Whatever I have just said,
it changes. As soon as that spirit leaves this body, the body cannot
even stand. The fingers don’t move. Nothing moves. The spirit left
the body. When that happens the body falls like a rock or wood or
whatever that you drop and it falls, and it stays like that. Then
slowly it starts smelling and slowly it starts disappearing and the
dirt cleans everything. Whatever you put into the dirt, it’s going
to clean it. If you come to that point where the body starts
disappearing and the dirt is eating it then that is also a problem.
That means you have not cleaned yourself in this world. So the dirt
is going to wash that body to clean it and in the Judgment Day Allah
(subhana wa ta’ala) is going to give another body to the person
under the ground.
The dirt eats everything. The whole body disappears except one small
cell in the body that is right behind the tail (part of the human
skeleton) that you cannot see but it’s there. It disappears into the
dirt and nothing can vanish and finish that. No fire can burn that.
It’s just mixed up in the dirt. You can’t see it with the eyes. When
Israfil (alayhi salam) is going to be given the order, and when the
Angel Israfil is going to blow the trumpet the second time then a
rain is going to start coming down to the earth and the earth is
going to drink that all the way down, seventy meters down. That rain
is going to be like the sperm of man and it’s going to reach
everywhere. All the people that came to this world from the
beginning of the world until that day, the Last Day, they are all
going to be under the ground or in the sea or somewhere. As soon as
that sperm touches that cell, that cell is going to start opening
again right away giving another body to man under the ground.
An ignorant man came to the Prophet (saw) one day and he was holding
one piece of bone in his hand trying to challenge the Holy Prophet
(saw) and saying, “You mean, your Lord who you are saying has
created this bone…” he started pressing it against the ground and it
was all becoming dust, (and he continued,) “He is the one who is
going to create again all this?” And Holy Prophet (saw) says, “Yes.
The One that has created you is going to create that bone again.”
And then an Ayat came saying, “Say to them: The One that has created
you from nothing and your parents from nothing, do you think that
He has no power to create you again from your leftovers?” Definitely
He is going to. But Allah is again saying in the Quran, “They are
ignorant and they are coming to challenge you Ya Muhammad. Leave
them. Put them aside. That day they are going to see.”
So we are believing that. We are preparing ourselves inshallah not
to fall into that situation that when we go out from this world, we
go clean and when we enter to the grave, for the dirt not to touch
us and for that body to get up for the Judgment Day. That is
Marifat. Marifat is that. Not the Marifat to walk on top of the sea
or to fly in the air, no. How many in these days are saying, “I have
these capabilities, I am this and I am that.” You can have anything
and everything in the world. You can jump from here and reach up to
the first heavens. If you are not going to the grave clean then you
are not the person who has Marifat.
What is Marifat? The one who has already been given special powers
and at that time he uses that. He is not using it for this worldly
nonsense. He is going to use it there. So this is what we are
preparing. And through sohbets, through association we learn how to
get rid of the wrong habits that our ego caught here and there. We
must get rid of those wrong characteristics before we reach to the
grave. If we leave one there then the dirt is going to touch us. We
must get rid of them.
That’s why we are saying, “Ash-hadu an-la ilaha illallah wa ash-hadu
anna muhammadan abduhu wa rasuluhu.” Everytime you are remembering
this and you are saying this, Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) is giving
another Noor, another light, another dress of light to your body. If
a believer’s light opens up in this world, the sun will turn off.
You cannot see the sun if one believer’s light opens. It is hidden.
That’s why so many times you are seeing that the Sheykh is an
ordinary man. But people are running after him. He is not giving
money to them. He is not promising them, “Give me vote and I am
going to give you high stations.” Nothing. It is the attraction of
that secret that is with him that is pulling the other ones, because
everyone has that in their hearts. So it’s pulling. They are seeing
that it’s there. So it’s pulling them. If one of their light opens
up, the sun turns off. You cannot see the sun anymore.
So that light is very valuable. So many Sheytans are running after
it. You must protect that now. If you cannot protect it then he is
going to steal it. And if he steals it then you are going to enter
to darkness. And when we enter to darkness then the grave will cover
it and it will finish you.
So all we have to do is, we have to try to continue doing what our
obligation is and we have to try to have time to sit everyday,
especially in these holidays, especially in these holy nights ten
minutes at least. People go to itikaf, they go to khalwat in the
month of Rajab. Rajab is finishing. I am not seeing any one of you,
I am coming here at the last minutes, ten minutes earlier (before
the prayers), and you are all running like head cut chickens left
and right trying to reach. What are you reaching? Why are you not
doing your things earlier to come at least anytime after Asr to sit
to meditate a little bit, to do something. Except those who are
doing it already, they continue. But not everyone is doing it.
So this is the special time that is coming down and the blessings
that are coming down are special during that time too and all the
Sheytans during that time are wildly running around. Why are you
running around? Sheytans are running around at that time. You have
to be in the mesjid. That is the best protected place, the mesjids,
not the marketplace or here and there. Do your things early!
That’s what happened to the whole world today. All night long they
run, they play, they run after their ego and early in the morning-
time they sleep. When the provision is being given to people
everyone is sleeping and they get up afternoon-time running again
trying to find something. You cannot find anything. Those who work
they must go to their work early in the morning. Collect what is for
you and slowly in the afternoon-time leave the work. Prepare
yourself and start sitting for the sake of Allah now.
We are not only for this world. We are going to work in this world.
We are going to prepare things in this world. We are going to
collect things and we are going to try to make our lives easier and
more comfortable. You can have better things in your houses, you can
have better couches, better bed, better this and that, but don’t let
yourself to feel into that comfort. It’s going to eat you. Sleep on
the floor again. Have it but sleep on the floor. Then Sheytan can
never fool you because you are not giving any way to your self, to
your ego.
In the summertimes take shower with cold water. Yeah. It wakes you
up. It makes you come back to your own senses. When you get up early
in the morning that you cannot even open your eyes, go under that
shower, take a cold shower and look what happens. Don’t listen to
these nonsense doctors, “Oh, you are going to get sick.” Everyone is
sick anyway. They are all sick. Try that and look. Then your body
becomes like metal. Nothing bothers you then.
All these are necessary to make this body, this physical form to be
strong. When the physical form is strong then you are capable to
carry the world and the Akhirat. When the physical form is not
strong then you cannot carry the world and you cannot carry the
Akhirat. If you are sick then you are not any good for this world
and you are not any good for Akhirat.
So if you go according to this Western understanding, they make you
to get scared of everything and you don’t do anything then. People
are running these days to the hospitals for any small thing that
happens. Why are you running to the hospitals? What do you expect
from the hospitals? I see people like that. Somebody comes to me
saying, “See, I have a pimple here. It’s getting bigger.” I
say, “Eh, don’t worry, it’s okay.”
“I must go.”
“Why are you going? For what?”
“I must go to check it out.”
“What’s going to happen if you check it out? Is it something that
you think they are going to fix? They are going to pump you with
injections and all that medicine and while they are killing that,
now they are going to hurt the other parts of the body.”
It is the last thing that you are going to go to these doctors. The
last thing. Because they don’t know anything. Half of them are drunk
and half of them are drug addicts. They know nothing anymore. The
ones who are giving them the licenses are not good. Not them.
Otherwise, you will live always in worrying and in problems. Turn
yourself to Allah. The person who gets up early in the morning for
Fajr prayer, it is very hard for that person in these days to get
that kind of diseases and that kind of sicknesses that are outside.
Don’t think that Allah is going to send it to you. Don’t think that
all these diseases and all these sicknesses are happening because
the world is changing. Allah is sending them. Through all these ways
to all these disobedient people who are disobedient to His laws, He
is making them not to have any comfort in any ways. As soon as they
turn to Allah, He will lift it off from them. They are not
listening.
Leave their not listening. We must listen. We are believers. We must
listen. We are believing in Allah, we believe in His angels, we
believe in His Books, we believe in the Judgment Day, we believe in
khayrihi wa sharrihi, we believe that the good and the bad is
created by Allah (subhana wa ta’ala). Without His permission it
cannot come to us. We believe that if we are following and if we are
obeying our Lord then He is not going to send any bad thing to us
except as a test to us. A test may come and He will lift it right
away. You read the lives of the prophets and the lives of the Awliya
and you find that they went through so many difficult times. Allah
gave those to test them and to give lessons to the people who are
coming after.
You know the life of Prophet Ayyub (alayhi salam), how much
difficulty he passed through in his life and all of a sudden Allah
gave him the cure. People have lost their faith now. They are going
and running for the medicines to get cured but they are not running
to Allah to get cured. How are you going to get cured? How that
little medicine is going to give you cure? But it does. Can you deny
it? You cannot. If you turn to Allah sincerely then you get better
cure and faster. For certain things you must go to hospitals and you
must go to doctors. But some things for which it is not necessary,
we should not run after them. You should run to Allah (subhana wa
ta’ala).
And in the beginning, if we live the life, the way that Holy Prophet
(alayhi salatu wa salam) has taught us then we will live a
comfortable life. Anything that the Prophet (saw) said to us, they
have found and they are going to find. One of the big problem that
man today is running into, (I am going to tell you that now, maybe
you will find that later, maybe they didn’t find it yet,) is (not
taking) salt. Before you eat take some salt and after you eat take
some salt. The salt kills all the germs inside the stomach washing
it. Then the food goes in and it’s digested properly. And with
another (bit of salt) we close (the meal).
I watch another big problem that man is running into today. From
eighteen years old to eighty years old. What are they running for?
They are running to get Viagra, men and women these days. I will
tell you a replacement for Viagra and go and ask any doctor who has
any intelligence. Holy Prophet (saw) is saying, “Early in the
morning when you get up, eat twenty-one raisins with seeds.” Not
without. With seeds. In the West, they don’t eat grapes with seeds
anymore. That’s why they need Viagra. I am challenging the whole
world, all doctors. Say to them to come to me. Say to them, “This is
what that Sheykh is saying.” That’s what it is. So many other things
are in it. But I am telling you what they are running for. That’s
what it is. Grapes with seeds.
The prophets know. Mankind doesn’t know. The prophets know. Allah is
teaching them. The Awliya Allah know. Allah is teaching them. Sheykh
Mawlana knows. Allah is teaching him. Allah is saying, “When you
don’t know something, when you run out of that knowledge then go and
ask from the Ahl-e Zikir.” He doesn’t say, “Go and ask the Alim,
Ulema, the knowledgeable people.” He says, “Go and ask the people
who are Zakiroon, who are always in Zikir. Go ask them.” They know
because the man who is in Zikir all the time is with Allah all the
time. You ask him and he turns to the other side, he doesn’t give
you answer for two minutes, then he looks at you and says, “This is
the answer.” You ask him and he asks his Lord. That’s all. You ask
that one and he asks the Lord and he gives you the answer. The
Zakiroon are sitting face to face with their Lord. That’s why Allah
is saying, “Go and ask the Ahl-e Zikir.” Because they are with their
Lord and they are going to teach you, they are going to tell you.
They don’t need to go to computers, to books, to this and to that to
check it. They take it from there and they give to people.
Anyone who listened to the prophets have found the way, they lived
comfortably in this world, they went to the hereafter comfortably
and they are going to live the best lives in the Paradise. Anyone
who did not follow the prophets didn’t make it. They didn’t make it
in this Dunya and they are not going to make it in Akhirat. If we
listen to the prophets then we are going to make it. If not then we
are not any special to our Lord. None of us is special except those
who are having more trust and who are following their Lord’s orders
more strictly. They are special. Allah is treating them specially.
He doesn’t look at their physical forms or who their grandparents
are or what they are capable to do. No. He doesn’t look at what they
wear, He doesn’t look at what their color is and He doesn’t look at
how their shape is. He looks at how sincere we are with His orders
and how much we run to please Him. That’s what He looks at.
So if we are running then we will be alright. If we are not then we
are not any better than any person that Allah (subhana wa ta’ala)
has created. So Allah is giving us chances to do this and especially
in holy days and holy nights like this He is opening more doors to
us. We must run to collect. If we do then we will win for our own
selves. If we don’t then we will lose for our own selves. These
days are passing. As tonight is finished, the books are closed and
everything is closed. Closed for this world and closed for Akhirat.
Anybody who ran for this world, they ran all day long, they got
tired and whatever they have collected is there. They are going to
sleep. They cannot do anything for tomorrow and they don’t know if
they are getting up for tomorrow. Anyone who ran for Dunya and
Akhirat, they won the Dunya, this world and they are winning the
Akhirat also.
Intelligence is that. The best intelligence is that, for a man to
look and prepare himself before he goes, sending something to
receive something where he is going. We are going to the grave. We
must send something to receive there. We cannot bring clothes, we
cannot bring money and we cannot bring anything there. We are going
to bring our own physical form there. They are going to bring us
there if we have the chance for burial. In these days millions don’t
have that chance. Planes fall, this happens, that happens, the other
day I saw a picture that in Indonesia they took out a big crocodile,
they opened its stomach and they found three men’s bodies inside it
in pieces. Then they took it out from there.
So think. That one may be you. It may be you. It may become of you.
We don’t know. We don’t know what’s going to happen. We don’t know
what to expect. We don’t know what is there by tomorrow. We don’t
know where we are going. We don’t know what’s happening to us. The
future is hidden to us. So we have to prepare ourselves daily for
everything that is coming. It’s not a joke. Allah is not playing
with us. He has created us. Who are we? We are just weak servants.
We are little creatures. Not good for anything. Without His
permission we are not good for anything. So we must know this and we
must believe in it. Not to get fooled by other people who are
saying, “Oh, you are this and you are that,” and if they start
praising you, say, “Please, leave me alone. Go away. I know what
I’m good for.”
If they ask, “What?”
“I know how to eat and drink and fill up the toilets. That’s what
I’m good for.”
We must know this. Every man is like that. You have this worldly
intelligence (telling you) that you are doing work. So what? It’s
only worldly. And you are earning the worldly things. Whether you
are earning 10 dollars a day or 10,000 dollars a day, it’s not going
to make too much of a difference. All you need is shelter, clothes
and food. That’s it. That’s what you need and whatever everybody
earns, that’s what they get. If you are earning, we are not saying
to you, “Don’t earn.” Earn. If not, then don’t go too crazy about it
too. Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) is going to send the sustenance to
us. And we work here or there (or wherever,) we still earn our
living.
The main priority to us is the hereafter life. That life is going to
be forever and we must try to earn the highest stations there. In
this world it doesn’t matter what station we have. We may be sitting
on the floor always. It’s okay. We are closer to the dirt. (As soon
as we die,) quickly inside. If we are earning too much degrees in
this world then we wouldn’t even want to go to that side then. Don’t
worry so much for the world. Whatever is prepared for you and for me
is going to come. The believers are wise people. They have to look
to see from which side Allah is sending provisions to them. They
have to run to that side. It doesn’t have to be such that, “I am an
expert in this job and I have to get from this.” No. Why are you
doing that job? For the worldly benefits too. If Allah is sending
you money from this side then turn to this side. This is what we
have to look.
But one thing we are not changing. Our way of worshipping. We have
to follow the Holy Prophet (alayhi salatu wa salam). We have to
follow his sunnats. If we drop his sunnats then we are in big
trouble. That’s what Sheytan is running to do in this time, to make
us to drop the sunnats of the Prophet (alayhi salatu wa salam).
Anybody who is dropping the sunnats of the Prophet (alayhi salatu wa
salam), slowly they are entering into the love of the world and with
that love of the world they are sinking. Inshallah this much is
enough for you and for me.
The holy nights are approaching. We must prepare ourselves for
nights like that to earn more for the hereafter life. Otherwise, the
nights that we are saying are going to come and they are going to
go. Whatever we do, that’s what we are going to earn. If we prepare
ourselves now, if we fix ourselves now to say, “I am for that
night,” then we earn. If not then we will loose. Those nights come
and go and we lose. Nights like that are full with blessings. We
must make them different inshallah ar-Rahman and if we follow the
nasihat of the Prophet (alayhi salatu wa salam) and if we follow our
Sheykh’s orders then we win in Dunya and Akhirat.
Wa min Allahu taufiq
Bihurmatil Habib
Bihurmatil Fatiha.




